Chapter 1
I will be a summary of the book by Karen Horney, "Neurosis and Human Growth," post, based on my own, that is just what appeals to me, I can also understand in the book.
creation of the idealized self
1) The child lacks affection, or it is plagued by claims of neurotic environment
2) It develops the basic anxiety, a feeling of isolation (the others do not want me, they are tuned hostile).
3) The child is developing strategies for the reason not to arouse fear. It is compliant, or aggressive (extreme).
contradictory strategies -> basic conflict
first attempt to solve neurotic conflict: make one of the dominant strategies.
development of appropriate Wermaßstäbe.
unification of relations
split anyway -> lack of integration of the personality.
Unilateral Development -> lack of self-confidence> inferiority
-> need to rise above the others.
4) It does not behave more according to your needs, but is aimed in the relationship only after the fulfillment of conservation strategies -> His self is estranged
6) It takes self-confidence -> It needs a new self, which it invented to to gain support (sense of identity)
7) developed imagination (the only possible solution)
8) idealizes his solution to the basic conflict, in compliance is good nature. is
as first image, then the image be idealized self.
It has the need for Limitless and perfection, because it requires the nature of his idealized self.
(he wants his true self to the perfect idealized self-forming)
his idealized self-employed need confirmation from the environment. It looks for respect, glory and honor to .
- neurotic ambition: external success
- Vengeful Triumph (humiliations in childhood)
1) Obsessive-compulsive nature, can not get away, otherwise torn, feeling of rejection by others. Not "I want" but "I have so I do not fall into the danger." Regardless their own interests.
- gluttony
- Exaggerated response to frustration
(because no relation to the content, only fame and honor)
2) imagination necessary. Daydreams
Book: Advanced: "our inner conflicts," the German language
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