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Cape Neurotic Claims

personal Selbsverherrlichung must not be touched -> the world is not right ->
any claims to the outside world wants or needs to

claims "I can not be bothered "
limiting wishes to risk a failure
claim to exceptional
" I was subject to no necessity "because in the personal world of the patient, everything is possible (God's equality)
recklessness or Übervorsichtigkeit
" to have no problems "
" with better gifts to be equipped "-" envy
claim only inside without sustained consideration of the possibility of fulfilling
egocentrism
/ / can not his own wishes are in question because he wants
idealized self "things will fall to him, though he sought"
/ / I have to go to school go - why?
the reasons for claims are exaggerated
"Because I'm something special, I have a right to .."
emfindet the necessary feeling (which serves as the base) more - for example, feels even more helpless
justice as a basis
wrong happened when the other bad - because belief
become "poetic justice" - Apply to others, other people are responsible for the rough and tumble them happen yourself
own positive values are exaggerated
good intentions to positive values counted
camouflage for revenge, claims based on a trade with the life
reactions to frustration: "legitimate "Anger
hostility: a response to an unfair frustration
wrongs appear to absurd exaggeration
discontent -> personal inability to cope with adversity," pessimism "-> pseudo-philosophical basis
in his own life only downside, in the lives of others - bright points, double entry bookkeeping
Consequences: envy and numbness
result, uncertainty in relation to their own rights in real life (because of the unrealistic own world anything goes)
inertia: 1) paralyzing effect of the claims 2) to claim that the intention
vindictive enough: other responsibility - > The Right to Restitution -> Do not trouble me -> inertia
claims equip him with evidence, he must prove his excellence, if it confirms the claims that they will one day become a reality
claims - warranty for fame and glory in the future
he felt he would make his claim lost to future performance if he would be interested in himself and his growth

example, asking the neurotic for a loan. He is irritated because his claim not to be harassed. Claim necessary because the demand confronts him to give in to his inner conflict, such as between his need, and to frustrate others. The claim that the world should work so that they can not mobilize its own conflicts.

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Chapter 1

I will be a summary of the book by Karen Horney, "Neurosis and Human Growth," post, based on my own, that is just what appeals to me, I can also understand in the book.

creation of the idealized self
1) The child lacks affection, or it is plagued by claims of neurotic environment
2) It develops the basic anxiety, a feeling of isolation (the others do not want me, they are tuned hostile).
3) The child is developing strategies for the reason not to arouse fear. It is compliant, or aggressive (extreme).
contradictory strategies -> basic conflict
first attempt to solve neurotic conflict: make one of the dominant strategies.
development of appropriate Wermaßstäbe.
unification of relations
split anyway -> lack of integration of the personality.
Unilateral Development -> lack of self-confidence> inferiority
-> need to rise above the others.
4) It does not behave more according to your needs, but is aimed in the relationship only after the fulfillment of conservation strategies -> His self is estranged
6) It takes self-confidence -> It needs a new self, which it invented to to gain support (sense of identity)
7) developed imagination (the only possible solution)
8) idealizes his solution to the basic conflict, in compliance is good nature. is
as first image, then the image be idealized self.

It has the need for Limitless and perfection, because it requires the nature of his idealized self.
(he wants his true self to the perfect idealized self-forming)
his idealized self-employed need confirmation from the environment. It looks for respect, glory and honor to .
- neurotic ambition: external success
- Vengeful Triumph (humiliations in childhood)
1) Obsessive-compulsive nature, can not get away, otherwise torn, feeling of rejection by others. Not "I want" but "I have so I do not fall into the danger." Regardless their own interests.
- gluttony
- Exaggerated response to frustration
(because no relation to the content, only fame and honor)
2) imagination necessary. Daydreams





Book: Advanced: "our inner conflicts," the German language

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Saturday in "Panda"


Kulturbrauerei
PANDA - NOT ONLY RUSSIAN THEATER Schönhauser Allee 36 10435 Berlin
- Prenzlauer Berg
input: Knaackstr. 97, Sredzkistr. 7, Building 8
U2 Eberswalder Str



"Olga from the Volga to Gorbachev's perestroika, 1985-1991 "





A young Russian woman and a Hungarian-German multimedia project to present her with video interviews and photographs from eyewitnesses in cooperation with the Russian theater and the School of visual arts and design in the Kulterbrauerei. 1991werden central themes of perestroika as the anti-alcohol campaign, Chernobyl, glasnost, Stalinization up to the coup in August vividly. Will be followed by an exhibition of oil paintings from the period of perestroika Andrei Krioukov. A Perestroikabuffet rounded off the evening in the appropriate Zeitcolorit.
Sat, 21st November 2009, 17:00 clock

 Admission: 5 €, reduced: 3,50 € 

Speakers: André and Olga Molnár